It’s okay to love on people. It’s okay to forgive them and show them grace. Someone once showed you grace. Forgive freely. It is okay to give people chance after chance because God has given you a million chances. That doesn't mean you have to be taken advantage up, but free yourself from the bondage and energy it takes NOT to forgive. It’s also okay to set healthy boundaries when needed, but still love people where they are and pray for them. Pray with them. Help them overcome barriers. Don’t be so quick to cut others off for their mistakes. They are human and you make mistakes also. They may not be the same mistakes that you make, but you are no better. When people anger you, take a step back and look into things in their perspective. Take a moment to pray and put yourselves in their shoes instead of wanting to quickly cut them off. It’s okay to hold onto people that are destined to be in your life. It’s okay to give chances and forgive people. Have discernment and trust God to cover your friendships and protect them.
A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.